Starting up conversations with a stranger sure requires some skills and know-how especially if it is with the opposite sex. If you are interested in starting a conversation with an OAU babe for whatever reason be it friendship, connection, business, or for a romantic prospect, you need to be sure of what you are doing because OAU babes are known for their intellect, class, and beauty. In this article, I compiled some tips that will help you strike up and have successful conversations with OAU babes.
1) Dress well and Smell nice
Well, basic social interaction 101 demands you dress well and smell nice. You know the saying about being addressed the way you are dressed? It’s quite unfortunate that some people still don’t know these basic things will determine people’s reactions to them. Well, a word of advice from me, if you know you are one of those who don’t give a care about what they wear, or your body smells like fufu, please stay away from OAU babes. Those folks get bad mouths. Your clothing ensemble and your fragrance will speak a lot about you even before you speak yourself and make it easy for you to have hitch-free conversations with the babes.
2) Be Confident:
In case you don’t know, confidence is really attractive. If you want to have a successful conversation with an OAU babe. You need to be confident. Wear your confidence like armor and ‘na dem go dey rush you’. You should not start a conversation with a false speech or stutter unless you are a natural stutter. These will make you look as if you don’t know what you are doing and these days, nobody has the time for that, not OAU babes. Always have it at the back of your mind that rejection does not define you.
3) Be Respectful
Your age or status does not pay the bills of anyone, therefore, Stay humble and polite while you converse with OAU babes. Social etiquette demands you politely greet a person before any other thing so, make sure you say a polite ‘hi’, ‘hello’ or ‘good day’ before you proceed. Don’t just jump into any conversation without greeting first like a manner mannerless Not just that, be respectful in all your conversations. Don’t start referring to a babe you just met as if you are talking to a longtime pal, no now, it’s not done that way.
Find a common ground: To keep an OAU babe interested in what you are saying, you would have to find neutral ground where you both are well-grounded and interested. There are so many things of mutual interest you can talk about. You can talk about classes, school stress, lecturers, and many more things. Never should you make a conversation all about yourself. Nobody is interested in your life history.
4) Be Humorous
OAU is already so stressful and Nigeria’s situation is already tiring, Please don’t further tire out an OAU babe with a boring discourse. Try as much as possible to have a light conversation filled with humor. Don’t take things too seriously or start having a hot argument with a person you have just met. As much as you want to crack jokes, you still have to be sensitive and sensible, please. Let everything be in moderation.
5) Be Intellectual
See ehn, if you want an OAU babe to be calm with you while you are having a first-time conversation, you have to be brilliant and intellectual. Most OAU babes are Sapio-sexual. Do you want them starry-eyed and drooling while you are talking? Then you have to be knowledgeable. Speak about things they do not know and see how much respect you would be given.
Starting a conversation with an OAU babe may seem intimidating or even scary to you, just follow these tips and you’ll see them work magic. You should note however that not all conversations will lead to what you intend but they will help you make acquaintances and connections that may be useful later on. Also, some babes are naturally bad-mannered, don’t let that get to you or damage your confidence and esteem.
