IS BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WORTH THE HYPE?
A lot of people will agree with me when I say relationship is a total NO for most people these days. It is said that this life no balance because while some people hate the idea of a relationship, some people love it, and some people are even in a relationship.
The question people ask nowadays is, ‘What is so special about being in a relationship?’. I doubt if a straightforward answer has ever been given to this question because everyone have their own opinion. Examining this from the perspective of those in a relationship and single pringles will always lead to a clash because their opinion will definitely be different. Someone in a relationship will tell you that being in a relationship means having your personal person, someone to lean on, biggest supporter, personal atm(no be me talk this one abegi) while a single pringle will first tell you that all these depend on the kind of partner you have before telling you that a good friend can do all that you just listed. Another issue of who is right will also come up.
However, every individual opinion really matters, be it a guy or a lady. Examining this issue from the perspective of a guy or a lady can be funny at times because the genders will blame each other. I hope you all don’t come for my head, but most guys are not interested in being in a relationship but will rather get a lady to kpansh. Some guys are no longer interested because they have also been served breakfast, some will say they prefer their peace of mind and don’t have strength for any lady’s wahala while some will tell you they don’t have money since some ladies now see relationships as another way of earning. Ladies lose interest because they don chop breakfast pass normal breakfast while some are scared of heartbreak.
Issues about relationships can be funny, especially when you listen to someone talk about their relationship or read about some online and you will be like na ment or malaria. Nobody is ready to offer what it takes to make a relationship work and will now be shouting men are scum or ladies are scum.
Nowadays, most people feel relationship is scam and all that is claimed to be in a relationship can be gotten from a friend with benefit. Some detest relationships because they have been heartbroken quite a number of times and some just hate it based on what they’ve seen or heard. Even if we continue dragging the issue, we will never come to a conclusion, so let me put these questions out here;
- Is being in a relationship worth the hype?
- What is so special about being in a relationship?
